Love Shouldn’t Have To Be Defined
Posted by WillowRaine on May 19, 2009
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It’s really sad that we live in a time where love, no matter what it’s source, should have to be defined, but unfortunately it’s true.
I, adore Michael Sarver I think he’s simply sweet as pie, and so of course I have him on myspace. I signed on some time late last night to see that his status was this:
“Just want to say to those offended I’m sorry…” it was a little longer, but you get the point, and his mood was bummed. So, of course, I was, in my sleep deprived state, curious as to what could take the heart warming smile off of his face. It didn’t take me long to find out, that it was, in my opinion all a misunderstanding, a mistake.
We all say things that we don’t mean, they come out wrong, if you watch the video without fangs bared, and hissing, you will see that Danny Gokey was already unable to form a complete valid sentence because he was probably so freaking tired. Do you have any idea how long those rehearsals last? WOW.
I know when I’m sleep deprived, as I so often am, I could probably not even tell you my name correctly at times. Does that mean I’m not who it says on my birth certificate? No. *Laugh* It simply means, my mouth outran my brain (in my case it doesn’t always take much).
You guys KNOW my stance on gay marriage, you guys KNOW my love for Adam Lambert. I do NOT believe that any of it was said out of malice, nor do I believe they are homophobic or hate homosexuals. You can’t convince me of that. Danny caught himself before he even got out one quarter of the word “right” realizing that he should NOT have said that, and Michael’s statement about “In a GODLY way” I took to mean, that he loves him like a brother. Everyone is persecuting them for something I feel was taken out of context, simply because we live in a world where they feel they had to specify the definition of their love for one another. Had they NOT said it that way, today’s news would have been filled with “Danny Gokey and Michael Sarver – Lovers?” and you know it. That is what is really sad. They can’t win for losing.
Well, for what it’s worth fellas, I stand behind you (as do countless others) in knowing A.) You didn’t mean any harm and B.) You love each other like brothers. (Hint, next time you maaaaay want to say it that way, just sayin’. Gotta keep you out of the boiling water so many was so willing to toss you into. Doesn’t seem like it would feel too good being there. lol)
[Images by Chris Hatcher / PR Photos]
Tags: AI, American Idol, American Idol Finale, Danny Gokey, Godly Way, Michael Sarver
Filed Under: Celebrities, TV, TV Shows
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